Oys Bay

Boys.......

You say girls are hard to understand, but you guys are even harder to figure out. I'm sure any girl would agree with me. I'm not saying this because I'm bitter when it comes to that subject, because I'm not. I mean, yeah I've had some pretty bad experiences with my personal relationships in the past, like honestly I can't name one relationship that ended well, but still I don't let that really affect my opinion of you guys, I just can't get a handle on you.

If I like you, I'm pretty much an open book. I honestly don't know the meaning of playing hard to get...Guys however always remain pretty much in neutral. There might be a moment when you're like "oh he does like me too" but then you go and do something that totally contradicts it. Or you'll flirt right back, and get our hopes up, then go and flirt with some other girl, or two. Clarification, that's all we want.

Some girls like to take the initiative, and drop the "I like you" bomb first. But I rarely ever do it. I have terrible self-esteem when it comes to asking someone out, or telling someone I like them first. I don't like being rejected, so I just go the traditional way, and let the guy make the first move. But some of ya'll like to wait for the girls, which makes it a never ending cycle of "maybe's" and "I don't knows".

Trying to figure out guys, is like trying to learn a new language. When you think you have it down, they change the letters, and BAM! You're lost in translation.

Life would be so much easier if everyone would just come clean about their feelings....but until that happens, I guess we all just have to be happy with what we already know....

Which is nothing, pretty much...

Until next time.....